Christmas gifts for 10 year olds they’ll actually use

By Santa Cards team · Updated

A ten-year-old girl building a wooden robot arm kit at a kitchen table, with a strategy board game, walkie-talkies and a sketchbook around her

Two ideas on this list are our own products and are labelled as such. Everything else is a generic suggestion: no affiliate links, no sponsored picks.

Ten is double digits, and ten-year-olds want you to notice. They are not little kids any more, not teenagers yet, and allergic to anything that looks “babyish.” The trick with Christmas gifts for 10 year olds is to give real things: real tools, real gear, real games, real responsibility. This guide has 15 ideas grouped by type, with typical prices in dollars and pounds, a short note on what ten-year-olds are into, gifts that aren’t toys and a budget table. Two ideas are our own products and are marked; the rest are generic suggestions you can buy anywhere.

What 10-year-olds are into

Most ten-year-olds are in fifth grade (Year 5 or Year 6 in the UK, the last years of primary school). Broadly:

  • Being taken seriously. A real camera rather than a kids’ one; a proper sketchbook rather than a coloring book.
  • Identity. Their own style, music, room and opinions. Gifts that let them express who they are go down well.
  • Friends. Group chats, sleepovers, shared games. Things they can use with friends often beat things they use alone.
  • Deep hobbies. By ten, some kids are genuinely skilled at something: drawing, football, building, coding, music.
  • Longer books. Middle-grade series of several hundred pages, read in days.
  • Money and independence. Saving up, choosing for themselves, going to the shop alone. A gift of responsibility can be a gift.

Toys, games and builds

1. A serious build

A large brick set, a wooden mechanical model (a clock, a marble machine, a robot arm), a model rocket kit or a detailed 3D puzzle. Something that takes a weekend and sits on a shelf afterwards. About $30–$80 (£25–£70).

2. A strategy game the adults like too

Ten is the age when a child can play the same modern board games as their parents: engine-building, deduction, cooperative campaigns. Pick one with a 10+ label and 45 minutes or less. About $25–$50.

3. A 1,000-piece jigsaw or a brain-teaser set

A big jigsaw of something they love, or a set of metal and wooden puzzles to solve and re-solve. Good for the quiet days between Christmas and New Year. About $15–$30.

Tech and gear

4. A real camera

A simple digital camera or an instant camera with a few packs of film. Ten-year-olds take surprisingly good photos when the camera feels like a real one, and it is a creative outlet that is not a phone. About $60–$100, plus film for instant cameras.

5. Headphones with volume limiting

Over-ear or wireless headphones with a volume limit for children’s hearing. For audiobooks, music, and long car journeys. About $25–$60 (£20–£50).

6. An e-reader

For the child who reads a lot: lightweight, no games, no notifications, and the whole library in a backpack. Pair it with a library account; many libraries lend e-books for free. About $100–$150.

Books

7. A middle-grade series box set

Fantasy, adventure, mystery or funny school stories: the right series at ten turns a reader into a reader for life. Ask the child’s teacher or a librarian what their class is reading and pick the next thing. About $30–$60 for a box set.

8. A cookbook or experiment book they can use alone

Recipes and experiments written for kids to do largely on their own. Add one ingredient or piece of kit to start with on Christmas Day. About $15–$25.

Creative gifts

9. A proper art set

Alcohol-based markers, a mixed-media sketchbook, fine-liners, and a how-to book in the style they like (comics, manga, animals, lettering). The quality of the materials is the message. About $25–$50.

10. A sewing, crochet or embroidery kit

A learn-to-crochet kit, an embroidery hoop set, or a beginner’s sewing project. With video tutorials, ten-year-olds can pick up real craft skills over the holidays. About $20–$40; a basic sewing machine costs more.

Outdoor and active gifts

11. A skateboard, with a helmet and pads

A complete skateboard (or a cruiser for rolling around the neighborhood), plus protection. Check the deck width suits their shoe size. About $50–$100 (£40–£80) for the board, plus pads.

12. Camping and adventure gear

A headlamp, a kids’ sleeping bag, a hammock, a compass. Promise a first night out in the garden or at a campsite in spring. About $20–$60.

Experiences

13. Tickets for the two of you

A concert, a sports match, a play, an escape room (many accept children this age with an adult), a climbing session. Ten-year-olds value time alone with one adult more than they will admit. Prices vary.

Digital and personalized gifts

The last two ideas are ours, and we will be honest about how they fit a ten-year-old.

14. A Christmas comic book where they are the hero (our own product)

A 25-page illustrated Christmas adventure with your child’s name in the title and in the speech balloons. Choose between a mystery inside the Great Clock of the North Pole and a race to relight an old lighthouse in the fog. The hero is drawn from one photo of your child (pick your favorite of the drawings), or you choose a ready-made hero and send no photo. Ten-year-olds read it on their own; it suits kids who still enjoy a good adventure, and the slightly-embarrassed grin is part of the gift. It is digital (an online flip-book plus a PDF you can print at home), not a printed book.

15. A Santa video, for them or for a younger sibling (our own product)

Many ten-year-olds have worked Santa out, and that is fine. Some still believe; for them, a 15-second English video in which Santa, an Elf, Snowflake or Reindeer says their name and mentions their year can be a lovely last believing Christmas. For the ones in on the secret, there is a better use: let them help write the details for a younger brother or sister. You read the AI-written script for free before you pay, and the video is ready in minutes.

Gifts for a 10 year old boy or girl

Gift lists for “10 year old boys” and “10 year old girls” often split into sports gear and craft kits. Real ten-year-olds do not split so neatly. Instead of the aisle, ask three questions:

  • What do they do when nobody tells them what to do? That is the hobby to feed.
  • What do they do with friends? That is where a shared gift (walkie-talkies, a game, matching gear) lands.
  • What are they trying to get better at? That is where the “next level” gift goes: a better ball, a better sketchbook, the next set.

Gifts that aren’t toys

  • A room makeover kit: string lights, a corkboard, prints of their choice, a new duvet cover.
  • A bank account or a savings goal with a starting deposit and a plan.
  • A subscription in their name: a magazine, a craft box, a streaming service for audiobooks.
  • A watch, analog or a simple digital one, for the first walks to school alone.
  • A photo book of their year with captions in their words.
  • Lessons they have asked for: guitar, drums, coding, horse riding.

Christmas gifts for 10 year olds by budget

BudgetIdeas
Under $15 (about £12)A paperback in their series, a brain-teaser puzzle, a headlamp, a magazine issue
$15–$30 (£12–£25)1,000-piece jigsaw, cookbook or experiment book, crochet or embroidery kit, string lights
$30–$60 (£25–£50)Strategy game, art set, headphones, series box set, camping gear
$60 and upDigital or instant camera, e-reader, skateboard with pads, big build, tickets for two

A few tips before you buy

  • Ask, then listen. Ten-year-olds give useful wish lists. You can still surprise them with one thing that is not on it.
  • Set up tech before you wrap it. Charge it, update it, add parental controls, so it works on the morning.
  • Protect the magic for the little ones. If a younger sibling still believes, give the ten-year-old a role: elf-in-chief, video co-writer, cookie plate supervisor.
  • Keep a tradition going. Even “too old” kids secretly like Christmas Eve pajamas; our Christmas Eve traditions guide has ideas for every age.

Other ages: Christmas gifts for 5 year olds, 6 year olds, 7 year olds and 8 year olds. Out of time? The last-minute digital Christmas gifts guide has gifts that arrive instantly.

Questions and answers

What do 10 year olds want for Christmas?

Things that feel grown-up and useful: a real camera, headphones, a big build or model kit, a strategy game the adults play too, a proper art set, a skateboard, a series box set, their own room upgrades. Most ten-year-olds will tell you exactly what they want if you ask; the list is the best starting point.

What is a good gift for a 10 year old boy or girl?

Start from the child, not the gender aisle. A ten-year-old who loves building wants a model kit whether they are a boy or a girl; one who loves drawing wants a real art set. Every idea in this guide works for any ten-year-old with the matching interest.

Should I give a 10-year-old a phone or a tablet for Christmas?

That is a family decision more than a gift decision. If you do, set it up before you wrap it: parental controls, the apps you have agreed, screen-time limits and a charging spot outside the bedroom. Many families give a camera, an e-reader or headphones first, and leave the phone for later.

Is a 10-year-old too old for a personalized comic book?

No. Our comic is made for kids of any age: little ones have it read aloud, older kids read it on their own. At ten it works best for a child who still enjoys a good adventure, and it can be a funny, slightly embarrassing gift they secretly love.

What can I get a 10 year old who has everything?

An experience with you (a concert, a match, an escape room, a day trip), lessons in something new, a subscription in their name, a gift that is about them (a photo book of their year, a story starring them), or the next level of a hobby they already love.

Do these ideas work for 11 and 12 year olds too?

Most do. The tech, outdoor, creative and experience ideas carry straight into 11 and 12. Skip the more “kid” items and lean on gear, room upgrades, experiences with friends and money they can manage themselves.

An adventure with their name on the cover

A 25-page Christmas comic where your child is the hero, read online or as a PDF.